Chaussures de Fleurs

....{Flower Shoes}

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These shoes are just perfect for a garden wedding. Yes, a bit avante garde, but you must admit,

these are brilliantly beautiful!

Come on ladies, you are the 'IT' factor of your event, the finale is just under foot.

Hair + MakeUp + Style = Your Wedding Attitude...

{photos via here::special thanx}

What's behind you...

If your special gown has you bearing you back, be sure to pay even closer attention to detail.
Be certain that the fabric lies smoothly against your skin and that any fastening accessories are not twisted, gathering, gapping or worst yet, in ill-repair. Be certain that undergarments are not raring their pretty little heads, and that they are appropriate for the gown's fit.

Most of all, take time in the months before your special day to get your back & back-side in tip-top, lean mean shape. Supplementing regular trips to the gym for that extra cardio with a well-rounded back & glute routine, will assure that the important assets that follow you, will leave your guests in awe of the backside of your dress, and envious of the body that fills it in.

Wedding Reality...

A new wedding reality series premieres tomorrow, Tuesday 16 June on the TNT network. Titled, 'The Wedding Day', this series hosted by the famed Diane Valentine, owner/principle consultant/designer of D.R. Valentine & Assoc, Inc-based out of Pasedena, California & Alan Dunn-owner/planner of LA-based, 'Tres LA'.

ABOUT THE SHOW

'Every couple dreams of having the perfect wedding. For many, it’s the most important and emotional day of their lives. But for some, insurmountable obstacles create barriers to making their dream day a reality. WEDDING DAY is here to prove that a girl doesn’t have to be rich to have a wedding fit for a princess. In this uplifting series, deserving couples from all over the United States will get a helping hand to ensure the most important day of their lives is also the most magical. Each week, celebrity event planner and food expert Alan Dunn (For Better or Worse) and celebrity wedding planner Diann Valentine (author of Weddings Valentine Style) host as family, friends and community come together to create a dream wedding. Along the way, viewers will learn each couple’s compelling story, from their first date to the big day'.


Tune in, TIVO it,DVR it...
Then let's chat about it.

Contain it....

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If you are having out-of-town {AKA-OOT} arriving for your big day, put an instant smile on their faces with a gift bag placed in the hotel room for each of them. Make the items inside reflect your theme or something special about you and your future husband.

While you are making a list of those special filler items, don't forget the first impression starts with the container that you chose to hold all of those special items.

Above are a few vessels that, not only reflect your style, but are vessels that can take on other functional duties when all of the goodies have been used. All the while relaying to your guests,

that they are very special'.

{Inspiration}...Marlena Dietriech

The look--clean,not fussy, all lady. Even the seemingly over plucked eyebrows get a nod. The coiff, every strand in place & defiant of all weather conditions. The pout, soft & crisp...loving the mat colour. And you have to love the soft, mysterious eyes bedecked by well-placed full yet wispy eyelashes.
For your special day, you may not want this look {I can't imagine why not}, but you definitely want this 'total package' look when you are presented as 'The Mrs' to the world.

Inspied By...{Grace Kelly}...

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Inspired By...{Rhinestones}

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{Inspired By}...Lace

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{Inspirations} ...Details

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{Inspirations} ...The Shoe {Ruffle}...

This season's runways have seen this ultra-feminine, no nonsense gem of a stiletto. These beauties are fierce whether the toe or heel is enclosed, peeping out 'just a little' peek-a-boo style, or fully open. Can you say, "I am too sexy for my foot..."?
Dress up your wedding gown, shower dress or rehearsal dinner gear with this jaw-dropping instant hit. Or share the bling, and surprise your guests in attendance with a full bridal party display of this summer's haute fashion, and have your entire bridal party sport their edition of these lovelies...your bridesmaids will never stop thanking you.
...It's great to be female!!!

Shoe {Ruffles}....If you don't tell...neither will I

Haven't received your economic stimulus kickback yet?
That new ruffled shoe is must have for your wedding?
Not to worry. My girl Maegan, has ultra easy DIY instructions for achieving this couture runway look...for less {way less}.

If you don't tell, neither will I.

Suggestion:
Get your girls in on it, and make it a project for your Girl's Night Out.

...if they don't tell, neither will I...

{Inspirations} ...Details

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{Inspirations} ...Confections

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{Inspirations} ...Peach...

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I {LUV} You This Much...

What's your deal breaker?

Wedding Humor...

...after all, you have to be able to laugh at yourself...

The {Gift} that keeps on giving...

This cute little ditty is what is known as a 'Journal Jar'. The concept goes something like this...

~~ Type up a ton of thought provoking statements/questions.

~~ Print them on fun colored decorative paper.

~~ Cut, fold & toss them into a decorated glass jar.

Give the Journal Jar, along with a small keepsake journal, to each of the guests that you have invited to your Bridal Shower or Girl's Night Out event. Include instructions to, regularly, post a journal entry that addresses one of the statements/questions that they have selected from the Jar. Once they are finished scripting their journal entry, just return the 'prompt slip' back into the Journal Jar.
Voila'!! Endless topics for their writing pleasure!

{LUV} Letters...

{photo via here::special thanx}

You have the man...the ring...and the date.
Keep the romance alive with a constant exchange of love letters....hand written for more meaning.
When was the last love letter that you wrote to him? ...the last love letter that you received from him?
...it's been far to long

Your Cup of {Jo}...

{photo via .Pink::special thanx}

Have you told each other that your are all that and a splash of cream?

Just The Right Fit...

Have you uttered these words before?

You've purchased that jaw-dropping gown that will magically and instantaneously transform you into 'Belle of the Ball'. Don't let the improper fit of your undergarments be the 'black eye' your otherwise, enviable attire. Macy's offers a service that will guarantee that you will be radiant in your stunning gown...from the inside out.

Girls Day Out For Charity...

The Ford Motor Company has renewed its fifteen year commitment toward fighting breast cancer. You and your bridal party can join in the fight, while spending a great day together. Gather up everyone, don your sneakers and personalized tee shirts {decked out in your theme colours, declaring your wedding information} and get started.
They say that charity begins at home, so what a great way to start your married life...even before the "I Do".

Bridal Soiree...ala' Ruby Press

{photos via Joel Flory::special thanx}


The dynamite divas over at Ruby Press held an elegant Bridal Soiree last week. Here are some pictures from the event to peak. I'm sure that you'll find something that inspires your design diva.

{Eye}'m In...

{photos via Julia::special thanx}

I love the allure of the makeup style of these photos. Fresh. Clean. They practical yell, "style me summer {wedding}

Celebrity Apprentice Style Jewelry...

After advancing to The Celebrity Apprentice final, savvy business woman & celebrity Joan Rivers steeled herself for the competition of a lifetime. With grace, poise, integrity and style, she outsmarted, outwitted and played world reknown poker champion Annie Duke. By the show's end, it was all but obvious the good won over evil, rendering Joan this season's Celebrity Apprentice.

Here's my question... were you paying attention to the fabulous gems that Joan wore during the entire series? These pieces were stunning and beyond flattering. Granted, if you are meek at heart and do not like the attention, then these, larger than life jewels are not for you. But of course, with your wedding just around the corner, you definitely want to shine brighter than that two carat ring that your fiance' gifted you with.

The great news...you too, can sport these over the top, celebrity status pieces from Joan's "Board Room Collection" on your day. What's that? Oh...the price? Can you say 'economic stimulus affordable'? Start ordering now so that you will be sure to sport them on your 'red carpet' day.

There Goes the Bride...

{Cast of the Rainbow Dinner Theatre's "There Goes the Bride:" Rachel Blauberg as the bride with assorted wedding guests Craig A. Smith (left), Theresa Walker, Joe Winters, Sherry Konjura, Scott Russell, Lois Sharrott and John DeLancey}

If you find yourself in or near Central Pennsylvania, more specifically--Lancaster, PA, you must stop in at The Rainbow Dinner Theatre to see this frantically funny comedy about love, marriage and the 'upper crust'. Now playing, this amusingly hilarious comedy started 5 May, and runs to 1 August. Go and join this spectacular cast of characters for the wedding of the year! As a socially prominent family prepares to wed their daughter to the son of an equally upper-crust set of in-laws to be, what's the worst that could happen?
You can't even imagine!
After an unexpected whack on the head, the father of the bride begins seeing a 1920's flapper, unfortunately no one else can! This makes the new in-laws very nervous and when the bride lets slip that she is already acquainted with the birds and the bees, the wedding is almost called off. Just when you think it's on, it gets called off again and again, each time for reasons zanier than the last. RSVP with your reservation for one of the funniest shows in years.

Keeping the {Bridezella} in check...

This one is for the Groom...

So you finally got down on that one knee and proposed. You tell yourself, this woman is the love of my life. The very element of my being. The reason that I live each day. She has restored your faith in this thing called love, by being the rock that you have come to depend upon when the time are hard, when you need a rationale, unbiased opinion. This soft, tender understanding person has supported, both, your great decisions and your not-so great decisions. All this, with a smile.

So who is this 'bridezella' and where do they nap? Certainly your gentle, kind and emotionally supportive Bride does not, nor could ever fit the bill of being a "Bridezella"!

Well, for all of you fella's who are scratching your heads and wondering how this impossible, attitudinal, mean tempered, short fused woman is made-- here is the formula::

Yes Guys, the moment you put that eye-catching diamond on your otherwise, reasonable woman, you may have stirred up the ingredients of a real "Bridezella"! Your otherwise soft and loving woman when given the opportunity to don that spectacular once-in-a-lifetime gown is elevated to a tempermental, out of control, attitude-Goddess {to the third power!}. Add in the nine months to a year of planning that you have ahead of you---you have the formula for a monster-sized "Bridezella".

So now what? How do you maintain your sanity, not to mention your composure, when you are dealing with this out of control, temperamental women {that you have fallen in love with and wish to spend the rest of your life}? My friends have just the answers for you. With strategies that will teach you how to save yourself, quell the temperment and help her keep her eyes on the prize, you will be armed {heavily} with the ammunition that you need to get you down the altar and onto the honeymoon! Act fast before you are turned into a sniffling pile of compliant mush!

Wedding Buzz...

Lindsay Bonamassa (The Wedding Library), Mark Ingram (The Bridal Atelier); Ron Ben-Israel (Ron Ben-Israel Cakes), Mel Barlow; Darcy Miller (Martha Stewart Weddings)

{photos via AllanZepeda::special thanx}

Lindsay Bonamassa, from the sassy & informative blog, The Wedding Library Buzz, held a beautiful bridal cocktail at the amazing, upscale Metropolitan Club. Some of the bridal industries heavy hitters turned in full force to showcase their wears. If you did not make it this year, be sure to stroll over to Lindsay's site and sign up for their newsletter. While you're there, purchase your very own 'Wedding Library Card' and be one of the first to get discounts on products and services supported by The Wedding Library.

Fantasy Fashion...

{photo via Fashionbox::special thanx}

Are your wedding dreams really fantasies of a light ethereal event? Leaning more towards that fairie-tale theme? The above pictures should help you get started in the creative thinking area. This look emphasizes very soft feminine fabrics {think velvet, taffetta, dupioni silk} done a large scale {think billowy, overflowing, costom-like, excessive floral/ruffles, and corsets} with prints that are unusual for fashion attire {think plaids, paisley, over-the-top textured & bejeweled}. With this look, remember that everything else on your planning plate, the success is in the details.

How {Luv}-ly is that?...

What You Won't Do for {LUV}...

J. Crew does

GOWNS....

Can't do without one of these simply elegant gowns? Click on the picture.

"Crew"s You Way to Matrimony::

J.Crew, yes that J.Crew--our First Lady - Michele Obama's 'go to' boutique. Long recognized for sensible styling, well-tailored mix and match pieces and smart, affordable pricing.
They now have brought the fashion philosophy into the world of wedding. Their well-organized, informative site provides you with information ranging from fit {see sample of sizing chart below} to colour choice {see sample below}. Armed with a personal Wedding Expert who is ready to cater to all of you & your parties fashion needs you can't go wrong with this vendor on your team!

J. Crew does

{Wedding} Shoes...

For more information on these, or any of J.Crew wedding footwear, click on the image.

J Crew does

ACCESSORIES...
Want more info on these dainties? Click on picture..

Get Your Daily {Candy} ...

The {luv}-lies at Daily Candy has the dish on all things...no exceptions. So it is no wonder that they have been bitten by the wedding bug and now has a great,information-packed site. They bring you all the information that is weddings and is a definite go-to resource. Start your wedding trek onto their pages now.

Cake Alternative...

A newer spin on the latest cupcake trend, miniature cakes like four-serving confections or one-bite petit fours have several advantages: They look elegant, lend themselves to creative arrangements, and can be ordered in a variety of shapes and flavors to please all guests. Most confectioners are able to customize these dainty delights to fit perfectly into your wedding theme. If you're ready to get off the wedding cake bandwagon, give these smart little bites a go.

Bric Blast... The Ultimate {Grooms} Event!

This Event is for the Guys!
If you are going to be in the New York area on May 7 2009, this is the ultimate Grooms Event. For more details,information and to R.S.V.P. click on the picture below.

{ENJOY}!!

**if you attend, send in your pics and I will be sure to post them. See you there!

...You wanted a gown?

{ChanelSpring2009::special thanx}

Karl Lagerfeld has something in store for all of you bride's who are looking for a signature piece. Chanel's spring 2009 line is fantasy from head to toe. The words for the runway--white, frilly, ornate and grandiose. All done elegantly. Like what you see? Make it your gown for your day.

Collared...

{photo via OneEyeland via Vi.sualize.us::special thanx}

Mind your decolletage when selecting a gown. Beautiful necks should be showcased on your special day. Rather your choice is as avante garde as the top neckline or as soft and ruffled as the last, be certain to make the style your own.

Real Wedding...

while on my usual 'blog stroll', I found this fun & wonderful picture of a couple whose wedding celebration was in their home. How {luv}-ly the decor... and the obvious love that they share with each other.

**i can't quite remember where i found these pictures, if you know, please leave me a comment so that i can give just credit...thanx!

Has the Swine Flu Put Your Wedding Plans on Hold ?......

{photo via::Michael Appleton for The New York Times}

Around the nation, drugstores have sold out of surgical masks. Schools have closed, sports games have been called off, and doctors’ offices — and their phone lines — are jammed. The truly anxious confess that they are trying to avoid touching elevator buttons, library books and the knobs on bathroom sinks. All due to the recent swine flu {aka: N1H1 virus} outbreak. Although, at the time of this post, there has not been any official ban on travel, travel to Mexico has all but dwindled to a stand still as the administration has advised against unnecessary air travel to and from Mexico.
With this second wave of wedding season well under way, one can only imagine the impact of this unforeseen occurrence on all of the couples who have spent countless hours of time planning for their wedding event. Many, of whom, have certainly booked honeymoon get-aways to Mexicok this, otherwise, vacation paradise.

Have you had to change, or worst yet, cancel any part of your wedding event because of this widespread flu epidemic? If so, how are the destination vendors handling rescheduling or refunding your event? What financial impact is this outbreak having on your bottom line and on the bottom line of your invited guests?

Share your comments and solutions with other couples who may sharing your nightmare. We loved to hear your story and the creative solutions that has helped you through this.

{photos via::Adriana Zehbrauskas for The New York Times}

{Wedding} Themes

the gangster-themed wedding, a mug shot for the crime “marriage in the first degree"::

Sarah Feldman and Jeffrey Laite found true love while boarding a Manhatten passenger train one morning in January 2007. They dated for about three weeks before they ordered the words of "love" to one another, and then on his birthday the following year, Jeffrey Laite offerred the prosposal of marriage.
"They were married March 29 at Providence, a restaurant in Midtown Manhattan, which was decorated with all sorts of kitschy memorabilia, most of it culled from the bride’s private collection. The wedding had a “party like it’s 1929” theme, Ms. Feldman said. “A soulful era of contrasts: innocence and sin, optimism and cynicism, soft hearts and hard times.” The approximately 90 guests, were encouraged to dress in period costume and they posed for mug shots. Then, a 1930’s-style fedora perched on his head, Mr. Laite stood with his bride before Jen Laskey, a Universal Life minister, and recited his vows in gangster-ese: 'You make me smile with my heart.' " {read original article...}

Don't you just love the sweeping updo, ala' Lucille Ball and the racy, vintage back-corsetted gown...so untraditionally stunning.

{INSPIRATION} ::

Theme {iNSPiRatiON}::

Gown {iNSPiRatiON}::

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Remember, Jenna, the phenomenal calligrapher...and bride-to-be? Well, she has friends in high places, that she has shared her wedding theme & gown inspirations with. Here's a sneak peek. I adore the not-to-girly but oh-so feminine pink colour theme that is subtly laced throughout. And who said that you can't have fun with serious subject matter? From the whimsical carnival theme {tickets, balloons, hand dipped soft ice cream, juggler & cotton candy} to the sweet sensational delights {of tulle, candy, ribbons, polka dots, lace & pearls} this event promises to have lots of light-hearted fun...the Grown & Sexy way!!!

I am soooo there!!

Not for the {Font} of heart...

{photos via LoveJenna::special thanx}

The invitation sets the mood for the entire wedding.... This is sooo very true. The style, colour, texture, lettering and righ down to the design that you choose, gives your guest a hint of what is to come. This being true, the {luv}-ly stationery above will have your guest drooling in anticipation of the elegantly grande affair that you have planned for them. Calligrapher and bride-to-be, Jenna, is the phenom behind the hand scripted artistry of this stationery jewels. Her style is big, bold, daring and visually pleasing.

With all of the lettering & printing options available to bedeck your stationery needs, try something 'old school' for a very new and refreshing look.

Makeover Demo...

Trying to find the ideal look for your upcoming wedding celebration? Don't have time to shop around for just the right look? My friends over at Taaz have made your makeover worries just a little less. Stop by and use their virtual makeover program to help you find that picture perfect look. Select the photos that they have or really personalize your experience and upload your photo. Getting started is really easy. And when you find that photo perfect makeover, one click of a button, and your makeover is saved! See for yourself...

Before

After

Make the {Short} Cut...

{photos via SexyRedFrame::special thanx}

Looking for a new 'do to complement that perfect gown? Not sure if you want to wear it swept up into that beautiful french roll or to cut it into a sassy bob? Although shoulder length plus hair has many advantages {can we say, 'this stuff is dirty and I just don't know what to do with it?...*light bulb moment... a chignon or french roll! that's the ticket'}, short and closed crop speaks volumes.

A short cropped style, like those above, says that you are NOT your hair. Short coifs loudly announce that , 'I am sassy, bold and chic'! Short cuts are just plain classic.

What do you think? I'd like to hear from you...short and sassy or long and luxe?

{D.I.Y.} LCD Invites...

These great D.I.Y. cards are long on, both, ingenuity and techno-chic. Letterpressed L.C.D. display allow you to color your own unique message. Available at Present and Correct, each card has space for 16 characters. A fun to the touch card printed on recycled paper with a kraft style envelope fits the bill for any Bride going green.

{Flowery} Things...

Now that Spring is here, full throttle, why not stop and smell the flowers. These floral treats are great for beach weddings or as unique gifts for the ladies in your bridal party.

Mini {LUV}....

Looking for a gown that is just a little bit nontraditional? Not interested in shocking your elderly grandmother or being bathed in a sea of accusatory whispers as you promenade down the aisle? Do want to be remembered for, amongst other bridal elements, having a uniquely elegant, truly feminine, jaw dropping, "that dress it beautiful" gown?
The following gowns will give you just that reaction. Try raising the hem on your gown and your guests will sure to gaze in admiration and inspiration for your daringly stylish choice.

Real Weddings...

Kelsha & Makeever...Raleigh

{photos via Phreckles Photography::special thanx}

Saturday Inspirations....Typography

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Saturday Inspirations....{Typography}

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Saturday Inspirations....

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Saturday Inspirations....

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Pimp You Pumps...

You've have this great pair of shoes that you'd love to wear during one of your bridal party events. Your dilemna...you love them but you'd like to dress them up a bit...temporarily.
To the rescue...foot embellishment by Etsy! These wonderful bejeweled add-ons quickly transforms your much loved but plain pumps into luxuriously enviable footwear that will have every guest asking..."where did you get that pump?!"

A Play of White...

The dream-like styling and smokey photography makes for an ethereal ambiance in these stylish pictures. These high fashion garments are for the bride who is faint at heart. No way!The ultra-feminine couture is great for the bride with impeccable & selective taste.

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The Boys in {Black}...

Ring Bearers and Junior Groomsmen... attire befitting of a king

The people at My Girl Dresses didn't dare leave the boys out...
Here are some adoreable tuxedos and cute durable footwear to match. Just for the little guy in your wedding party. No doubt that he will feel all grown up.

Girls in {Black}...

Having a black tie affair and wondering if your Flowergirl or Junior Bridesmaid might look a "little too grown up" in black? Look and wonder no further. The folks over at My Girl Dress has tasty little black dresses, that will make your junior bridal party look 'oh so sweet'.
WARNING!!! The remainder of this post is raining with samples of delicious black + white dresses - done up right!

{Tablescape} at My Day Style Show...

Black. White. Yellow. = Classic {Style}

credits::

Select Party Rentals -all linens,flatware,place settings,glassware,gold jeweled candle lamps,black chiavari chairs,centerpiece. Cort Event Furnishings: T-Vac white chairs. All other elements are those of the designer.

Here are a few photos of the tablescape that I entered into the My Day Style Show's tabletop competition. I {heart} the combination of Black + White + Yellow. The black & white make it classic, while the yellow adds a element of colour and visual surprise.

I must take this moment to give a whopping 'Thank You' to, both, Susan Childs {Select Party Rental} and to Eva Villard {Cort Event Furnishings} for graciously coming to my rescue at the eleventh hour. Again, 'Thank You'.

as for the winner, I'm still awaiting the final ruling.... *{win or lose, it was a great & memorable experience!}

The "I Do Brunch"...

a view of the amazing Savage Mill Manor, our quaint &

beautiful venue for the afternoon

the Registration area gave hints of our impending pleasure..*note the Mimosa*

Linnyette {second from the left} & her wonderful staff serving up welcoming smiles & making it look easy

Table #1: one of the many awe-inspiring table designs

that's me { left} with LaKendra Kennedy from "Affairs with Elegance"

{Back Row- left to right}:: Deidre Gray, Johari A. Barnes, me, Brandi, Fran Aycock , {Front Row}:: Holly Blackett

GOOD FRIENDS + GOOD EATS = GOOD TIME!!!

it's always a blast when Event Planners get together!

Goodie Bags for all...aren't they to die for?

a creatively wonderful display

can I tell you about the out-of-the-box table displays? In a word...breathtaking!

I had the pleasure of being able to oogle this bejeweled artistry up close and personal

...*this was were I was assigned for the afternoon*

meeting new friends...always a great thing!

This afternoon's affair - The "I Do Brunch" was well attended and loads of fun! Seeing old friends and meeting new was the goal for the day. We feasted on great food, sipped on signature "I Do" mimosa's and was delighted with the sounds of a great jazz quartet. Great conversation and a sharing of industry ideas only served to make this day a memorable and everlasting event. Sign me up for next year!

Wedding Weekend for

Pearls of Wisdom

I am so looking forward to this weekend. WHY? This sunny filled weekend I will be spending my Saturday afternoon the " I Do Brunch"- a great networking event for wedding planners, hosted by diva planner herself, Linnyette Richardson-Hall. This exciting event will be held at the historical & eloquent Savage Mills Manor in Savage, Maryland. I will be rubbing elbows and hobnobbing with some of the industries most progressive, forward thinking and innovative Wedding & Event planners in the area. ...Can't wait to post the pics and the details.

And, while in the area, on Sunday I will be spending my afternoon at The Baltimore Tremont Hotel. Located in Baltimore, Maryland's downtown area and set against the beautiful backdrop of the Baltimore Inner Harbor this well-appointed & luxurious hotel will be the setting for the second annual My Day Magazine In Style Wedding Event. Billed as "The Ultimate Bridal Show Experience", the show's concept promises to delivery a unique bridal experience for every attendee. And this year Pearls of Wisdom will be participating in the show's first time ever, TableScape competition!! Wish me luck! Again, can't wait to post pics.

I hope that your weekend promises to be as exciting and fun-filled as mine.

Tell me, what are your plans for this weekend. Leave me your comments, I'd love to hear about how you spend your free time!

An Atlanta Bride ties the knot....

An Atlanta Bride tied the knot to Mr. Wonderful this past weekend!! Congratulations to both of these 'wonderful' people. Can't wait for their return from their exciting honeymoon in Prague...the picture are going to be great! ENJOY!!!

Black + White = Glamourous

Black + White = decadent.

Black + White = style.

Black + White = glamorous.

Black + White = elegant.

Black + White = attitude.

I {heart} Black + White.

Whispers...part deux

{smak} ...

Whispers...

When was the last time that you whispered something romantic into each other's ear?
Take a break from the planning...start with the above love notes...
...make a game of it

Details...

Audrey Hepburn is stunning! That pulled together look is achieved because of her relentless attention to detail...

~~ the perfectly tied candy pink bows that act as hat bands, slanted at the perfect angle...like synchronized swimmers...sweeeeet!

~~ the femininely coy hat bedecked in feathers that stop just shy of well-shaped arched eyebrows and alert eyes...waiting to be stylishly concealed by wide-rimmed opaque lensed shades...oh la-la

~~the 'shy but strong' lace veil that shields just enough to allow a glance at those famous almond shaped peepers. Finished off with a fine gloved hand...soooo ladylike!

{Paper} Ob' Jets.. shoes

{LUV} -ing these paper shoes by Jennifer Collier...

Great for favors + escort/seating cards...
... or just about anything that you can imagine...
The ladies in attendance are certain to fall deeply in {LUV}

Window Shopping...

Department store windows are where dreams take flight. Witness the magic of the gown, as Seatle-based wedding gown designer and atelier Luly Yang's gown create the window magic.

What's in That Bag?

Have you ever wondered all that it entails for your Photographer to get those great pictures of your event? If your curiosity has been peaked to the point of speculating what it is that they keep in that bag...take a look at the above photo. Then, click on the picture and welcome to the world of the original site where this picture lives. This is where the fun begins. Once at the original site, take the time to move your mouse over the picture. Amazingly, an explanation for all of the items features is given. So the next time that you go over you budget, and the question arises about the outrageous cost of your photographer, whip out this explanation!!

... And You Wanted a { Gown} ...

Jacqueline Bouvier Kennedy's wedding dress worn Sept.12, 1953 when she married John F. Kennedy; displayed at JFK Library and Museum in 2003 to commemorate the 50th anniversary of their wedding; probably will not be displayed again in this way because the weight of the dress is causing the fabric to tear. My hope is that they find a very good dry cleaner that specializes in the cleaning and storing of fabulous gowns, such as this.

This breathtaking gown in not to be upstaged by this stunning Van Cleef and Arpel engagement ring that consists of a 2.88 carat diamond flanked by a 2.84 carat emerald and tapered baquettes...Hello, Mr President!

I'm Back!...

I've been {reluctantly} off of the blogosphere for the last month where I have:

~~ redesigned my office...but not before I,
~~ moved the office
~~ restructured planning packages
~~ start working with a new web designer {the great results are coming this Spring!}
~~ re-wrote company handbook
~~ re-wrote employee handbook
~~ worked on some fabulous event projects
~~ enrolled in some continuing ed seminars {helps to stay at the top of your game}
~~ worked on new marketing material {so that I am fabulous for you}
~~ doing my share of networking {It's always great to meet colleagues}
~~ and much, much more!
So now I am back and eager to share the new things that I have learned with you!
Thanks for all of the e-mail and phone calls from all of you. Your concern and interest is much more than appreciated.
So, without further ado, I can not wait to get back to all of my BFFs in the event blogosphere....

Do Your Guests a {Favor}::

With all of the tantalizingly delicious food offerrings served at your wedding reception, coupled with the awarding winning, one-of-a-kind confectioner's delight- The Cake, one has to ask- "Why give my guests favors"?
Favors are 'the icing on the cake' {if you will} of your well-planned wedding event. It is the take home gift that continually thanks your guests for being a part of your very special day. Favors can be edible or practical and functional. Whatever type of favor that you decide to offer to your guests make it memorable by adding your personal flair. That personal touch can come in the form of the calligraphy that you choose to scribe your guests name. It can be the style/color/print/design that you choose to wrap this special gift.
Regardless of the item you chose to offer as a favor and the very special flair that you embellish it with, remember to make it personal--and your guests will forever, for always remember your special day and the special way that you 'thanked' them.

{photos via RT::special thanx}

Bridal Registry::

Getting The Word Out... The tried-and-true method of getting the word out about your Bridal Registry is word of mouth. Once you've registered, tell anyone who is close to you { i.e., parents, bridal party} and provide them a comprehensive list of your registry sources. Included in that list should be the names, addresses, contact information {phone number, internet address}. Most people know to ask a couple or their close family and friends.
As tempting as it may seem and despite that store personnel may tell you that it is okay: Do not include registry lists of information of any kind about gifts in your wedding invitation.
Some guests may be offended by the seemingly overt emphasis on the gift than them joining in the celebration of your union.

Bridal Registry...

Happiness Spread in Expected Ways...
Not every couple is comfortable registering, and not everyone needs or wants tangible items.

The following can fulfill your wishes and can help your guests with gift selection:

** No Registry:: Couples are not obligated to have a registry. Planning an intimate wedding or your guests are all family and friends who know your needs and tastes? There may be no reason to register. Or you might register at one or two locations for a limited number of items.

** Charitable Gifts:: Steer guests to a specific charity that is special and near/dear to you. Provide contact information and a brief explanation as to why this charity is special to you. Be certain to inform guests to make their donation in your name {as a couple}, established charities will notify you of donations made in your name.

** Honeymoon registries:: Available through many travel companies and agents, these registries allow guests to contribute to a couple's honeymoon-trip fund. Be certain to work with a reputable company and that they have a system in place for informing you a each guests gift.

And The Wedding Wire Award Goes to...

CONGRATULATIONS! to Eliana and her fantastic hard working team! They are they proud winners of The Wedding Wire's 2009 Bride's Choice Award.

"WeddingWire, the nation’s leading wedding technology company, just announced that By Your Side Events has won the 2009 Bride’s Choice Awards™!
In its inaugural year, the Bride’s Choice Awards recognizes and honors vendors from the WeddingWire Network that demonstrate excellent quality of service, responsiveness, professionalism, value of cost and flexibility. This year’s recipients represent the top three percent of WeddingWire’s vendor community, which includes over 100,000 wedding vendors from across the US. That means By Your Side Events is one of the very best Wedding Planners.
Unlike other awards in which winners are selected by the company, the Bride’s Choice Awards are determined exclusively by recent newlyweds through surveys and reviews. “We are excited to launch this annual award program to honor high-performing vendors based solely on the experiences of our WeddingWire community,” according to Timothy Chi, WeddingWire’s Chief Executive Officer. “This year’s recipients have set the bar high, exhibiting excellent service and expertise in the wedding industry.” "

Prance over to these great ladie's blogspot, and leave them a whole lot of blog congrats!

{MARTINI Monday} ::

Purple Rain Martini:

Ingredients:
1 Shot Triple Sec
1 Shot Blackberry Liquer
1/2 Shot Lime Juice

Method:
Shake all the ingredients with plenty of ice in a cocktail shaker. Strain into a chilled Martini glass.

Garnish:
With a slice wheel of lime and a blackberry sliced to sit on the rim of the cocktail glass.

Additional notes: Gorgeous combination of blackberry and citrus flavours.

{Wed} iquette Wednesday

Musical TIDBITS... {photos via {.S.T.U.F.F.}::special Thanx}

~~~ Use music to further the theme or location of your wedding. For example:

** Island location... try Steel drums or a Reggae band

** Country setting...try Bluegrass of folk band

** City / Urban venue...think Jazz band

** for something more unique try these....Barbershop Quartet, Mariachi Band,

Church Choir, High School Band + Choir, University marching band. The list

is endless. What are some of your ideas for carrying out your theme through

music? Share your ideas via comments.

~~~ Have you thought of...

... the many non-musical ways to entertain your invited guests. Whether your guests are taking pictures of themselves in a photo booth or filming/photographing you and/or other guests with disposeable camera that has been left each place setting {as a favor}
... sleight-of-hand magicians/illusionists, fortune tellers,tarot card readers and dance instructor can also provide a great way to get you guests involved.
The important thing to keep in mind when having a non-musical reception is that, guests who can make their own fun, make a party more entertaining. So be certain to thoroughly think through the guest list and make certain that every invited guest could be the life of the party on their merit!

~~~About the 'Tip Thing'

...should you decide to tip your DJ and/or Band, remember that gratuity should be given, in cash, at the end of the evening. Set aside the money beforehand and designate your planner to be in charge of distributing the funds. The recommended tip amount is fifteen percent, minimally {not to exceed one hundred fifty dollars per person}

~~~About the 'Dancing Thing'...here's the secret...
~~~To assure that your guests have a great time at your reception, note that guests follow your lead. If the two of you keep dancing, your Guests will too!!!

Buttons + Centerpieces:

{photos via Button+Floozies::Special Thanx}

This beautiful but simple 'button' tree makes a quiet but elegant presence when bedecked front & center on your reception tables. The clean lines and artistic design adds serene opulance to any wedding decor. One of the many beauties of this centerpiece is that it can be created in any color to coordinate with your wedding decor. Imagine that, a beautiful centerpiece is a close as your nearest fabric/button outlet.

{MARTINI Monday}

Sunset Martini

Ingredients:
1 Part Mandarin Orange Vodka
1 Part Cranberry Cocktail
1 Part Sprite

Instructions:
Mix as preffered. (Shaken or stirred)
Garnish with with orange twist
ENJOY!! {drink responsibly}

{Bridal} Blog of the Week::

Bridechka and The Wedding:

Describing herself as:: "...a young professional, living in the big city... and born in the former Soviet Union...'. This Bridal blogger seeks to capture all of the adventures and challenges of '...planning a wedding that incorporates more than one culture...Russian/Jewish...and hopefully help out some other bridechkas on the way'.
Her fun and information-packed blog, not only offers planning advice, but every now and then, we are allowed the priviledge of stepping into her world-outside of wedding planning. Throughout the many posts on her blog, you will frequently find shout outs for upcoming Bridal events and calls-for-action in support of other 'bridechas' and/or charities, in the bridal blogosphere. Because of her willingness to show blog love to others, her blog has been 'tagged' as Fabulous! and given 'first blog love' cudos.
Making certain that the info that she posts for her many followers is current and fresh, she not afraid to step into a 'bridal' classroom {or two!}
Not shy about fielding the more 'challenging' questions or featuring uniquely personalized buys, her refreshing approach to the mad world of wedding planning is both engaging and fun! Follow this Bridechka, her math-loving fiance and her 'fantastic bridal party , as well as, her whole entourage of 'people' as she heads down the aisle.

P.S.: If you are a Bride who has made that 'fantabulously' magical promenade down the aisle, Bridechka would love to feature your story in her "Real People, Real Weddings" section of her blog...just EMAIL her...

P.S.S.: Show your blog love by leaving a comment for this much deserved Bridal blogger

{Inspirations} ...

This Is Glamorous::

{photos via ThisIsGlamorous::special thanx}

These light and airy pieces are great inspirations for any wedding theme. The flowing fabrics and timeless details are so-o-o retro/indie, but also, so 'right now'. The hair stylist was careful to create a simple, but captivating 'do' that, not only shines in its own light, but enhances the 'pretty' of the garments. In this time of 'bling' this style and elegance is proof that you don't have to be over the top loud, to make a simple, but over the top statement.

{Wed} iquette Wednesday

YOU'VE GOT PEOPLE...
By now you've seen the commercials. You know, the commercials sporting the H&R Block brand...the commercials where everyone, except one cool,calm individual is sweating bullets. And why is the 'cool guy' cool? Because...'he has people'. This is the kind of cool that you want to have on your wedding day. And just how does that happen? Aside from having a great Planner, 'Team Bride' is definitely the trusted friends you and your Fiance' have selected to help you celebrate this very important time of your lifes.
Let's take a look at your people and what they contribute so that you don't sweat ::

Maid Of Honor aka {MOH}::

can be a sister or oldest and most loyal friend. She is the one who knows when to tell you what you want to hear, but, tactful enough to be brutally honest. The main duties of the MOH is to plan the shower & the bachlorette party. She is,also responsible for keeping the Bridesmaids' activities running smoothly. She may be asked to make a toast,both at the rehearsal dinner and the reception. She is your main go-to person for motivation/moral support and to help keep things organized. She serves as your witness at the signing of the marriage license.

Best Man

he is your Groom's brother or best and most loyal friend who will not party too hard after the rehearsal dinner- or the bachlor's party. In some parts of the country it is customary for the groom to choose his father to serve as his best man. The best man takes care of all bachelor events while providing support to the Groom. He is the Groom's main go-to man for motivation/moral support. He is responsible for getting the wedding rings to the chapel. And he kicks off the toasts at, both, the rehearsal dinner and the reception. He is the second witness to the signing of the marriage license.

Bridesmaids

Negative, needy drama-queens need not apply! Bridesmaids are fun friends who will still be in your life long after the dress. As members of 'Team Bride' , bridesmaids will participate in all of the pre-wedding events. They are also required to dance 'The Macarana' at the reception, wear those 5" stilettoes {with a smile}, run errands, attend tastings, site visits, bridal parties and/or other important/pertinent bridal meetings. These beauties are often escorted down the aisle on the arms of your Groomsmen, during the ceremony. Out of town bridesmaids can get a pass on most parties, but, they still must send a gift for the shower. They are not!:whipping posts, battering rams or emotionally void robots. That being said, remember that, foremost, they are your friends {no lecture intended}.

Groomsmen

this handsome posse is often comprised of old friends, cousins and, both, the Bride and Groom's brothers. These gentlemen can assist with seating invited guests during the ceremony, act as ushers at a very large weddings, run small pre-wedding errands on the wedding day and most popularly, escort your Bridesmaids down the aisle during the ceremony.

Flower Girl

this adorable little girl is usually between the ages of three and six years of age. Other than to look cute, her major role is to scatter all of those beautiful flowers along the aisle just before your grand entrance. If it makes her more comfortable, she can perform this duty with the Ringbearer by her side. Word of caution:: as cute and adorable as this age group can be, remember that, their behavior can be both unpredictable and not easily directed. The most engaging child can suffer a bad case of stage fright when placed before one hundred strangers.

Ring Bearer

Criteria for the job: a boy who is young enough to wear knickers, saddle shoes and long kneesocks {and not be deemed a Glamour Magazine-"DON'T"}. He is responsible for getting the 'ring' down the aisle {even if the ring is a darn good look-alike. Well, you don't really want to entrust that carat and a half to a four year old?}. Also, if he or your precious Flower Girl are stage shy, he can perform his promenade down the aisle in her company.

So there you have it...YOUR PEOPLE!! and remember...don't let them see you sweat!

{oh!, that's another product commercial!}

{MARTINI Monday}

The Black 007 Martini

3 Part Gin
1 Part Extra Dry Vermouth
Garnish with Lemon Twist

Instructions:
Shake ingredients over ice
Serve in a pre-chilled crystal martini glass
Garnish with a lemon twist

Notes:
This extradorinary martini has a crystal clear diamond color appearance to enhance the ultimate taste of a quality martini that compliments the erotic smooth classy side of the Black 007.

{APPLAUSE} {APPLAUSE} !

My BLOG IS {LUV} ed !!!

The very gifted and talented It's a Jaime' Thing has given me this fantastic award !! So while I am flashing my pearly whites and before taking my official bow, THANK YOU's are in order. Without further ado, {applause please} 'THANK YOU JAIME for such a thoughtful gesture. I feel truly honored'.

Now, even though I get to keep this fabulous award, one of the criterior for ownership is to pass the blog {luv} around to at least 10 {fantabulous} blogs with great attitude and/or gratitude. The rest of the rules are as follows:

1. Put the logo on your blog or post.

2. Nominate at least 10 blogs which show GREAT ATTITUDE and/or GRATITUDE

3. Be sure to link to your nominees within your post.

4. Let them know that they have received this award by commenting on their blog.

5. Share the love and link to this post and to the person from whom you received the award.

{drumroll please} ...and the Award goes to...

Pink Galoshes

An Atlanta Bride

{S.T.U.F.F.}

The Budget Savvy Bride

Fiance' Meeting You

Elizabeth Anne Designs

Blue Orchid Designs

Gossip.Style.Wed.

Bridechka

Once Wed

The Eastside Bride

The Brooklyn Bride

The 2000 Dollar Budget Wedding

Little Winter Bride

...will all of the awardees please take a bow?*

{Wed} iquette Wednesday

FOOD for THOUGHT...

On your way to the menu tasting? Although very flavorful and fun, this can be one of the great areas of stress during your planning process. There is at least one stress busting solution that will keep this palatable task fun and filling: Limit the number of "tasters" that accompany you during this activity. You know the saying...too many cooks...{you know the rest}. By inviting family, bridal party and friends to this tasty feast, you are surely inviting a host of conflicting tastes, preferences and, definitely, opinions.

In a few words, keep the tasting experience and decision between you and your fiance'.

{Inspirations} ...Wedding

{photo via Glamour Life ::special thanx}

This dress is amazingly light, daydreamy and just right for several wedding styles. Now everyone may not be able to fit into this style, but if you can, why not go for it. It's your day and your ARE the star!

{MARTINI Monday}

Cosmopolitan Martini

Ingredients::

8 Part(s) Vodka
2 Part(s) Cranberry Juice
1 Part Lime Cordial
1 Part(s) Orange Liqueur

Instructions::

Mix all ingredients as preferred {shaken with ice or stirred}

Strain

Garnish with a Lemon Twist

ENJOY!! {drink responsibly}

{Happy} Weekend...

{photo source::special thanx}

{Smitten}...Engagement Photos

{photo via ACupOfJo::special thanx}

During their Christmas trip to the west coast, Glamour.com's, Smitten, author and avid blogger, Jo and fiance' Alex, had these fabulous engagement photos taken by reknown photographer Max Wanger.

What a awesomely, fantastic couple!!

{Bridal} Blog of the Week::

The Broke-ass Bride::
The blogger extraordinaire of this weeks dynamic and information-packed Bridal Blog is thirty year old, Los Angelos residence, Dana. Dana and her fiance' Hunter have been dating since October 2002 when five years later- in October 2007, he popped the question...and of course, she said yes! Now they have a fabulous